Showing posts with label growing up. Show all posts
Showing posts with label growing up. Show all posts

Monday, September 27, 2010

Nice Knowing You, Junie




Book Sales! It doesn’t seem to matter the amount of books falling out of shelves, cabinets, closets or car doors….open a box of cereal and out comes yet another unread but Meaning To Read, Book.

Books are one of THE highest loves in my life. I hate to be a fogey but I’m not sure that I’ll ever get a Nook or Kindle or anything that requires me to charge up my application to simply read.

My beloved is not so much the collector type….he likes to, but instead of reading his books, Means To and instead buys another daily NY Times. That’s all kinds of dandy and informed of him….I enjoy his papers too. I usually see the headlines as I line the guinea pigs cages with them. Sometimes I will even put a few aside during cleaning.

Humanling and I love a great library book sale. Translation: You Can Afford Sixteen books for the cost of One Hardcover – Possibly More! She doesn’t have quite the patience that I do unless it has something to do with a video game device but she will usually find some way to occupy her time.

We brought home many interesting titles and I wonder about the history of the giver, the owner, the buyer, the occasion of receipt if given. At the sale, my hands lightly ran over the covers of books older than my deceased grandmother. I opened one….it had writing in it and the date was 1906. I can’t capitalize 1906 but I would if exclamatory numbers were on this keyboard.

When we got home, Humanling decided that it was time to pack up many of her older books, knowing that when you bring some home, some should probably go. She started pulling out things that I could see she never was that interested in and then the shocker. For about 5 years, she has been reading this particular series, Junie B Jones. She gathered all of her dog eared Junie’s and placed them in the box. No matter how many book guttings we’ve done, the Junie’s were sacred. She hadn't yet been done with them and I hadn't pushed her. Now they were leaving her hands and being laid down with the other books that never did mean anything for her.

I felt that weird Mother’s Resistance to Moving On and Growing Up.

“Junie B’s?” I said to her. “Are you sure?”

She looked at me solemnly but with confident seriousness.

“I’m almost twelve now. Twelve year olds don’t read Junie B. Jones.”

I looked at her and all I could muster was resignedly, “You’re right. You are right.”

And watched her grow up just a tiny bit more.

Tuesday, May 5, 2009

And it starts....

holding hands Pictures, Images and Photos

I am so glad that I'm getting married this summer. Looks like I will need El to get ready to flex his Extra Dad muscles soon enough. Cavey can flex dad muscles but it's like that tree in a forest contemplation....would we know if we never see him?

Humanling is starting the pre pre pre serious crush. The kind where I've heard the boy's name every day for a few days. The kind where everytime she mentions him he is "funny" or "kind" to her. AND THE KIND WHERE THEY LOST RECESS TOGETHER! Apparently he high fived her and they both had recess revoked.

Well today, Troy and Gabriella apparently sat in an auditorium together watching the grade five band and held hands. I tried to ask everything the "right" (read: non abrasive) way so that I can continue to stay in the loop.

Humanling started the hand cuddle. And Little Boy did not let go. Unless he was afraid she'd hit him.

And so since my hair is free of gray, apparently there has been a summoning.

On another note, I have American Idol on and do I need to even express the Wow that goes with show opener, Adam Lambert?

Although the judges seemed sort of lukewarm on the duet between Kris and Danny, I thought it was pretty good. And this is why I will not see my invitation in the mail anytime soon to come warm the seat next to Simon.

On to feed the boys now. I'm hearing a distinct Wheeting in the air going on in the other room. I'm sure they are ready for their bedtime meal.

Sunday, May 4, 2008

The Fine Line Between Oblivious and She's Hot


Humanling (9) and I decided to walk down to get ice cream.


I don't know what was in hers now that I think about it.


There was a girl outside who reminded me of my older daughter, who is 20. She was a blueprint of a tortured goth chick in Fairfield County. And she looked so much like my Evil Virgoan girl.


I said to Humanling (did I mention she's 9?), "She looks like your sister."


Humanling (nueve) put her plastic spoon down to turn around and check out the scene.


She turned back around and said "She's hot."


"Hot as in she has on too many clothes or hot as in pretty?" I had to know.


"As in pretty."


I gotta learn CPR on childhood to bring this dying business back to life.